It’s pretty common for dog owners to talk to their dogs as though they were people. We may wish that our dogs could speak, but sadly they can’t. But we can see in many ways their love for us through their actions and behaviours. Recognizing when your dog shows affection can help you respond better, meet their emotional needs, and ensure a happy, healthy relationship.
Physical Signs
Tail Wagging
A wagging tail is one of the most recognisable signs that your dog is feeling happy and excited! While dogs wag their tails for various reasons, a wagging tail combined with a relaxed body usually means your dog feels happy and loving towards you. The speed and manner of the wag can also convey emotions. A broad wag is often a friendly greeting that says they’re pleased to see you.
Licking
Dogs lick their owners for many reasons, including love and submission. Licking is a behavior learned from the very early stages of life. Puppies lick their mothers’ mouths to stimulate regurgitation of food, showing dependence and trust. When your dog licks you, they may be expressing their trust and comfort in your presence, alongside showing affection.
Leaning and Snuggling
Leaning is another sign of affection in dogs. Certain small breeds like Chihuahuas, Boxers, and Poodles love to snuggle this way. If your dog leans against you, they are seeking comfort or security from your touch. It’s a sign of trust and their dependence on you. Similarly, snuggling up close is your dog’s way of getting closer to you, showing they feel safe and loved in your company.
Behavioral Signs
Following You Around
If your dog follows you from room to room, it’s not just a sign of curiosity; it’s a clear indicator of affection. Dogs who are attached to their owners want to be wherever their owners are. This behavior shows loyalty and a deep bond, as your dog enjoys your company and wants to stay connected with you.
Bringing You Their Favorite Toys
When a dog brings you their favorite toy, it is not merely an invitation to play—though it often is just that. It’s also a gesture of affection, sharing something valuable to them. This behavior can signify trust and friendship, as they offer up their treasured possessions to interact with you.
Excitement Upon Your Return
A dog’s enthusiastic greeting when you come home, complete with jumping, tail wagging, and perhaps even a little barking, is a clear expression of their affection. This excitement shows how much they’ve missed you and how important you are to them. It’s a pure demonstration of love and happiness at your return.
Vocal Signs
Happy Barking and Whining
Happy barking is distinct from the more urgent or alert-driven barking that dogs often use to respond to strangers or potential threats. When a dog barks happily, it’s usually a higher-pitched sound, often accompanied by wagging tails, jumping, or other playful behaviors. This type of barking occurs when you play with them, during excited greetings, or when they’re inviting you to engage in an activity they enjoy. Similarly, whining can be a sign of excitement or a plea for attention and affection, showing that they value your presence and interaction.
Soft Growls and Purrs
Soft growls might sound worrying to some owners, but in the context of a relaxed and familiar environment, they can be signs of contentment and deep affection. These growls are low and throaty, much different from the sharper growls issued as warnings or during aggression. Dogs might emit these sounds during belly rubs, cuddles, or when they’re nestled close to their favorite person. Moreover, some dogs might exhibit a purring sound, similar to that of cats, which is a rare but affectionate vocalization indicating utmost trust and satisfaction with their surroundings and company.
Eye Contact and Facial Expressions
Making Eye Contact
Making eye contact is a strong indicator of a dog’s love and trust. Prolonged eye contact releases oxytocin in both the dog and human, strengthening the emotional bond. This ‘love hormone’ enhances feelings of affection and attachment, making this a significant gesture.
Raised Eyebrows and Relaxed Mouth
Dogs often use facial expressions to communicate. A dog with raised eyebrows and a relaxed mouth around their owner usually feels comfortable and happy. These expressions show they are relaxed in your presence, further signaling their trust and affection.
Conclusion
Recognizing these signs of affection from your dog is key to building and maintaining a strong, loving relationship. Each gesture of tail wagging, licking, leaning, or even eye contact enriches the bond you share. By understanding and responding to these signs, you not only acknowledge their love but also return it. Encourage these behaviors by spending quality time with your pet and being attentive to their emotional needs.
